Tuesday, September 26, 2017

100 Ways To Engage Your Neighborhood and become friends with your neighbors

A great way to use  your Spiritual Gifts and Strengths to engage your neighbors and neighborhood for God's glory!

Using your S.H.A.P.E.   Spiritual Gifts, Heart or Passion, Abilities, Personality and prior Experiences in a  new way. 

This is something anyone can do in their own neighborhood! Best doing it with a partner..that has other abilities, gifts, talents or strengths than you do. Remember, there is no "I" in team!

 I have found that it is often helpful to have practical ideas to start engaging the people around me. Most of the things on this list are normal, everyday things that many people are already doing. The hope is that we would do these things with Gospel intentionality. This means we do them:
  • In the normal rhythms of life pursuing to meet and engage new people
  • Prayerfully watching and listening to discern where God is working
  • Boldly, humbly, and contextually proclaiming the Gospel in word and deed
Not all of these are for everyone, but hopefully there will be several ideas on the list that God uses to help you engage your neighbors. Would love to hear stories of how you have lived some of these out or other ways you have engaged your neighbors.

An important lesson I learned some 45 or so years ago was "To not start any new project, initiative or work without first invoking the blessing of Deity".  

So maybe before starting to put into practice any of the 100 projects listed below is to pray about the needs of your neighbors and neighborhood! That you can do right in your home at any time. But not an excuse for not venturing out and actually walking around your neighborhood and meeting and talking to your neighbors! And praying for them as your walk around Your neighborhood! 

 

If you need some ideas on how to do a PRAYER WALK! 


You could even do a prayer walk around your neighborhood! More on that later!
Neighbors – Your Immediate Neighborhood
  1. Stay outside in the front yard longer while watering the yard
  2. Walk your dog regularly around the same time in your neighborhood
  3. Sit on the front porch and letting kids play in the front yard
  4. Pass out baked goods (fresh bread, cookies, brownies, etc.)
  5. Invite neighbors over for dinner
  6. Attend and participate in HOA functions
  7. Attend the parties invited to by neighbors
  8. Do a food drive or coat drive in winter and get neighbors involved
  9. Host a music share party in your home (everyone brings 5 favorite songs and discusses)
  10. Offer to mow someone’s yard who needs it on your street
  11. Have a garage sale
  12. Organize a tasting tour on your street (everyone sets up food and table on front porch)
  13. Cook Out with gate open, or even in the front yard and let neighbors know they are welcome to join.
  14. Have a game night (yard games outside, or board games inside)
  15. Art swap night – bring out what you’re tired of and trade with neighbors
  16. Grow a garden and give out extra produce to neighbors
  17. Have an Easter egg hunt on your block and invite neighbors use their front yards
  18. Start a weekly open meal night in your home
  19. Do a summer BBQ every Friday night and invite others to contribute
  20. Create a block/ street email and phone contact list for safety
  21. Invite your neighbors to serve along with you for a local cause in your community
  22. Organize a backyard movie night for kids on your block
  23. Prayer walk and talk to people you come across
  24. Jog outside instead of on the treadmill
  25. Pull their trash back in when you notice its out
  26. Cook an extra casserole and give it to a neighbor
  27. Buy an extra dozen donuts and give them to a neighbor
  28. Start a compost pile and allow neighbors to dump their compost and take
  29. Host a sports game watching party
  30. Host a coffee and dessert night
  31. Organize and host a ladies craft night
  32. Organize an effort for neighbors to help take care of elderly in neighborhood
  33. Become a regular at your neighborhood pool/park
  34. If you have a skill, let neighbors know that you can use it to help them for free
  35. Host a movie night and discussion afterwards
  36. Start a walking/running group in the neighborhood
  37. Start hosting a play date weekly for other stay at home parents
  38. Organize a carpool for your neighborhood to help save gas
  39. Collect good will store items and offer to take them to goodwill
  40. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer
  41. Start a sowing group
  42. Go Christmas caroling in your neighborhood (invite neighbors in on it)
  43. Throw a July 4th block party
  44. Start a neighborhood Facebook/Twitter/Google + group
  45. Ask longtime residents to help you learn about the neighborhood
  46. Offer to babysit neighbors kids so they can have a date night
  47. Find out your neighbors birthdays and take them a card and baked goods on it
  48. Setup a meet your neighbors night with drinks in your driveway/front yard
  49. Ask your HOA or apartment complex if they need help with anything
  50. Host a regular Saturday morning breakfast potluck
Extended Neighborhood – The Regular Spots In Your City
  1. Frequent a local gym or recreation center
  2. Find a park that you consistently spend time with your community at
  3. Pick a few restaurants to frequent getting to know the staff and regulars there
  4. Go to the same coffee shop when you can
  5. Start a regular ultimate Frisbee game in your city
  6. Take the kids to story time at your local library
  7. Let your kids play in the city sports leagues
  8. Attend your city council meetings and get to know what’s going on in your city
  9. Attend your local school board meetings to know what is going on in the schools
  10. Participate in the local festivals, parades and celebrations of your city
  11. Invite a neighbor to a local sporting event
  12. Start a guys night at your local pub/eatery
  13. Get involved in your kids school PTA
  14. Connect with other home school kids through local coop events
  15. Be a part of your local genealogical society
  16. Tip generously at your regular restaurant spots
  17. Participate in local film viewings and discussions
  18. Attend your local High Schools sporting events
  19. Coach a local little league sports team
  20. Offer to teach free computer training sessions at your local library/public venue
  21. Start a Study Group at a local place that needs business
  22. Be a regular with your kids at the same playscape/restaurant during the day
  23. Ask your local college how you can help serve international students
  24. Get involved with your local lions or rotary club to learn about the community.
  25. Find a local tweet-up group to meet with regularly
  26. Frequent a live music night at your local coffee shop or bar
  27. Make a routine of taking the family to a evening recreation spot (pool, jump zone, etc.)
  28. Find a local philosophy/theology discussion group and become a regular participant
  29. Find a baking meet up group and be a part of their activities
  30. Go to the same hair stylist/barber and get to know them
  31. Find your local bank representative and get to know them
  32. Be a regular at your local farmers market
  33. Take a regular stroll at your local park
  34. Take your dog to the dog park in your city
  35. Start a local art collective blog and organize around different themes
  36. Have gospel discussions in public places where others can listen in
  37. Check your areas craig’s list for community service needs
  38. Ask a local restaurant owner how you could bless their employees
  39. Frequent the same gas station and make an effort to get to know the workers there
  40. Watch sporting events at the same local sports bar/restaurant in your city
  41. When you can, support local businesses and get to know the people in that business.
  42. Visit your cities visitors center to learn about the it’s history
  43. Start a storytelling group at your local coffee shop
  44. Organize a kids fun day at your city park
  45. Offer free computer/technology help for elderly citizens in your area
  46. Start a bike repair co-op
  47. Cook out at your local park and invite the people there to eat with you
  48. Start a sowing class at your local community center
  49. Organize a co-working time at your local coffee shop for people who work at home

    50. Join a city softball, soccer, football, basketball league.

Monday, September 4, 2017

Finding your place to put your gifts & strengths to work, making a difference for eternity

 
As we know there are countless opportunities to volunteer.
Pretty much we can pick and choose where we want to volunteer.

It can be confusing.

 "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Ephesians 2:10

For people of faith, the first thing we should do is pray!
What has the Lord already called you to do?

  "However, I consider my life worth  nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me-the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace." Acts 20: 24


So where can I make the most difference?

Isn't that what we all want to do?

How do we evaluate and decide where we can use our passion and talent in the most effective manner?

A good place to start is right in your own neighborhood, one person at a time, when you choose... 


We might want to review and consider where we are already donating our financial resources!


According to Peter F. Drucker in his The Drucker Foundation Self-Assessment Tool   for Non Profit organizations...he talks about what making a difference means to a potential volunteer...and I quote "What nonprofits do for their volunteers may well be as important as what they do for their primary customers. The reason is that volunteers search for opportunities to make a meaningful contribution. They feel the need to do something where "I can make a difference." But again, you must discover what "making a difference means to each volunteer and how they must be satisfied in order for them to give their commitment."

Before we do anything or make any decision, we need to ask the questions Why?
Why am I or why do I want to do this?  A short blog post on this subject!

The best way for non profits to convey their Vision and Mission is on their website!

The most important consideration for us as volunteers or potential volunteers is "What is my passion?"

Then I can begin to search for the best organization that has a Vision and Mission that aligns with mine!

Check their website.  Is their Vision and Mission statement clearly visible?

Are current volunteer opportunities clearly visible?
What type of background, training and commitment are they asking for?
 
"The place where God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet." -Frederick Buechner

"Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring." Ralph Waldo Emerson 


What do you believe God is calling you to?

"A God-ordained vision will begin as a concern." Andy Stanley  

And then:  What Type of People Do I like to Work With?


Then I can begin to search for the best organization that has a Vision and Mission that aligns with mine!

Check their website.  Are current volunteer opportunities clearly visible?
What type of background, training and commitment are they asking for?

Another ingredient in finding your best volunteer opportunity is to know your Strengths!

It has been said that only 2 out of 10 people use their strengths on the job.
So that is and may be a reason or motivation for one to search for a volunteer opportunity.
So we can "Make a Difference in the world"
God has use our impure motives!
A good video about "Strengths" Strengths

More on Vision and Mission

 

How nonprofits can appeal to volunteers to join them in their vision and mission!

 

How to Evaluate a charity if you are considering giving financial assistance or even VOLUNTEERING with them!

 

  "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Ephesians 2:10

 

"However, I consider my life worth  nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me-the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace." Acts 20: 24

 

Finding peace with God.

 


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 A few good books worth reading to help with confirming where the Lord may want you to serve!

Help wth findng a specific organization where you can make a real difference!






A good book on how to make good decisions.